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Sorry for the vanilla photos. They are all I've got on hand. Don't worry, I'm kinkier than I look...



On the up side, it does show my face which seems rare on this site. Whatever, it's who I am. And anyway, why hide a beautiful face like that?





Some quick points about me:



I'm recently out as a kinkster. I am just now realizing how essential BDSM is to my life.



I'm about 90% submissive and 10% dominant. So I'm a switch...but mostly not. As a submissive I am obedient and dedicated but a little smart...I need frequent punishment to stay aligned. The right dominant for me is a strict disciplinarian hiding behind a pretty smile and a nice figure. Beyond that I'm a good fit with most dominants.



It is more rare, but I can also connect with certain submissives in such a way as can sustain my kinky soul. My ideal sub is emotional, sweet, and needy and requires creative dominance, love, soft words, and strict discipline.



The paperwork is being processed for my upcoming divorce from a lovely (but mostly vanilla) woman. She remains my good friend. Needless to say, there is no chance of reconciliation.



I am looking for a long term (lifetime?) relationship filled with vanilla life aspects (movies, dinners, running errands, grocery shopping, etc.) but with all of it supercharged by our intimate power exchange relationship.



I have a whole bunch of kids. I'm not interested in having more of my own but am delighted if you have some already. I watch my kids half the time at their house (my ex and I are "nesting") and am free half the time. I make enough money that I can support them and yet still have plenty of money for dating. But don't come after me for my money...it'll annoy me and anyway there's not enough to justify your time (lol).

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Whether submissive or dominant, my partner needs to be equal parts talker, thinker and listener. She needs to have a great sense of humor (essential), and be open to all sorts of music, movies, etc. so that we can have things to do in between BDSM activities.



In short, I am new and relatively inexperienced and ravenous and romantic and intellectual and kind and funny and successful and sex crazed. I'm worth taking a chance on.

Boogschutter

Athletisch

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Hazelnootkleurig

Blank

Gescheiden

Ja - Niet Bij Mij Thuis

Nee

Ogen

Ik zou er niet eens aan denken

Bruin

Geen huisdieren

Nee

Bachelor

Voltijd

Politie

Director

Tussen de €100.000 en €150.000

Alleen

Is het altijd feest

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Spiritueel Maar Niet Religieus

Een keer per jaar

Three goals: First, enter into an exclusive loving power-exchange LTR. Second, do well by my children. Third, succeed in my work helping people and providing a comfortable living for the people I care for.

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Gek, Ranzig

Drama's, Films

Actie, Science Fiction, Komedie, Romantiek, Drama, Documentair, Gezin, Animatie, Horror, Thriller

Blues, Country, Dance, Electonische Muziek , Industrial, Jazz, Latin, New Age, Pop, Reggae, Rap, Rock

Mythologie, Autobiografie, Biografie, Erotica, Fantasy, Fictie, Geschiedenis, Horror, Humor, Educatief, Wiskunde, Romantiek, Bovennatuurlijk, Wetenschappelijk, Religieus, Natuurwetenschap, Science Fiction, Technisch, Ik ben een schrijver

Going out doing something completely vanilla -- eat dinner, see a movie, meet with friends, see a concert, whatever -- but have our own secret set of BDSM relationship rules we are following the whole time. Perfect combination of vanilla and chocolate...

Moed, Empathie, Flirterig, Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Intelligentie, Macht, Gevatheid

She's unique. She doesn't follow prescribed gender or bdsm roles. She's comfortable with herself. She takes care of her body. She's intelligent and passionate about what she does. She values conversation. She appreciates being a good parent. She has a great sense of humor and displays it both by thinking I'm funny (I do try hard) and being funny herself. She loves completely and exclusively (doesn't mean she doesn't play with others). If she's dominant she's sweet, empathetic, direct, strict, and a disciplinarian. If submissive, she's rebellious, playful, loving, and masochistic.

Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid, Dominatie