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I am a female submissive seeking a Dominant male for exploration in bdsm, specifically D/s. I cannot devote myself to the lifestyle full time due to personal responsibilities, but would like to find a Dominant who would be open to regular communication through text, email, phone, etc., with occasional one on one encounters.







I would be especially interested in someone a bit older than myself, preferably with ten or more years experience in the lifestyle and/or as a Dominant. I want someone who can teach and be gentle, but firm and guiding at the same time. I am drawn to intelligence, intuitiveness, and confidence. I would like to find someone with whom I can laugh and not be afraid to share my feelings about our experiences when we are in regular conversation.







I make no judgements against others when it comes to personal relationships in their vanilla world, and I expect the same. However, I have had my hopes dashed twice in a short amount of time, by Doms who had complicated domestic situations. This means that I am only looking for Doms who are either single or divorced, and not in a close relationship with their former spouse.







I am not in the market for someone who only wants to explore the physical aspects of BDSM, and does not understand the nuances and delicate bond of trust that is developed in the mind first and foremost. I am seeking one Master, someone like myself who may be anchored somehow to the conventional world, but needs that one who completes them to express their Dominant side. I am not into sub or switch men, nor do I desire to be pleased by, or to please women. I am also not into couples, so please don't ask. Not that I want to be rude, but rather up front, so no one's time is wasted. We are all busy people. It takes alot of investment to pursue this life, so it should be valuable.







My ideal scenario would be to have the freedom to live my other life outside of the D/s arrangement, but to otherwise devote myself in thought and deed to pleasing my Master, dressing for him, obeying his requests. I am very willing and eager to please the right person.







My one on one experience with bdsm is limited, but I have studied the lifestyle for over two years, and I have a good understanding of the basics, so please no fakes or guys who just want to get their freak on, so to speak. Serious inquiries only.







I am much more drawn to a profile or a message if it has a pic. Not because I am shallow. I just like to be able to put a face to the text so I can get a feel for the whole person. If you have pics, I would appreciate at least one, and I will happily give you an email to send it to instead if that is preferable.







Thanks for stopping by,







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Virgo

Curvy

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Brown

Caucasian, Middle Eastern

Separated

Yes - At Home

No

Chest

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Dark Brown

Cat

No

College Degree

Full-time

Medical / Health

Nurse/ Clinical Assistant

With Kid(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

Yes - But Non Tobacco

Yes - Socially

Teachers Pet

Friendly, Observant, Outgoing, Reserved

Camping, Cars, Computers, Exercising, Family, Internet, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Reading, Theater, Travel

Drinking, Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

Bound in my Master's lair, quivering with anticipation of what's to come next....

Being restrained, forced use, forced orgasm, mwm, dp, breath play, rope suspension, cross, Sybian.

Friendly, Cool, Perfect, Obscure, Goofy

Spiritual But Not Religious

On Holidays

Libertarian

To return the blessings poured over me to others who need a blessing. To raise my good, smart little girls into good, smart young ladies.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Obscure

Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Family

Blues, Classical, Country, Dance, Metal, Pop, Rap, Rock, Soul

Biography, Classic, Erotica, Fiction, Health, History, Humor, Nature, News, Philosophy, Poetry, Reference, Religious, I'm An Author

Serving my Master and giving Him pleasure, receiving pleasure from Him in return.

Boldness, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Power, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

I seek a man who knows that his place is to be dominant over me, but at the same time allow me the freedom to be myself in my professional and family life, and to have choices. I want a man who can teach me the art of submission, to perfect my natural desire into the perfect connection for mutual fulfillment. I look for strength, internal as well as external, decisiveness, stern yet gentle, sensual, not afraid to be tender, but definitely, definitely in charge, giving off a vibe that he will always do whatever he wills with me.

Intimate, Domination, Bondage, Secretive Sex